One thing that is becoming less and less taboo these days is cursing. In the the old days, a simple utterance of “damn” was an abomination-especially coming from a woman’s mouth. This is one of my greatest flaws. I identify as a woman of God, but do my words live up to it?
I grew up the youngest of three kids, with my biggest role model being my brother. Naturally, I grew up trying to follow in every one of his footsteps, even if they weren’t good. He had the mouth of an 18 year old boy, and I was an amenable little girl doing everything to gain big brother’s approval. You can probably imagine what kind of a girl I was-I was the one playing football with the boys at recess, always messy, muddy, stinky, and wielding the mouth of a sailor.
Over time this has become a nasty habit. It has gotten to the point where I hardly notice when I cuss. It rolls of my tongue with such ease. Just because society is becoming more accustomed to mouths like mine doesn’t make it right. A lot of the vulgar things I have been known to say are never directed maliciously at others, but are often used to supplement a story to increase its humor. But even still, that doesn’t make it right.
I always believed that cussing really wasn’t a big deal as long as God’s name wasn’t being used in vain. What I didn’t take into consideration is that everything I do should honor God, and that my body is a temple.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 “…your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. So you must honor God with your body.”
This really hit me hard. My words were not only disgracing me, but also my God. What you say should be used to build others up with God’s love.
Ephesians 4:29 “Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that you words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.”
I want people to look at me and know that I am a Christian by the way I carry myself and the words that I speak. Honor God with what you say. If you are struggling to kick a bad habit, just know that others are struggling right along side of you, including myself. In the end you will be forgiven, but you also need to recognize your sin and work towards eliminating it from your life. Also remember that nothing is impossible with God at your side.
Honor your body, your temple. Honor your God.